Introducing A Pet To Children...The Safe Way

Having a baby is a very exciting and busy time for a couple.  If it's the first child and you have a pet then the stress can be heightened even more because what if the pet doesn't like the baby?  What if the baby is allergic to the pet?  Lots of questions with seemingly nowhere to find the answers.  Well here's some answers to some all to frequently asked questions.

First, you don't have to give up your cat because you are having a baby.  It won't smother your baby.  That is an old wives tale that is not true.  Your cat can get a long with your baby just fine with some ground rules just like anything else.  As your child grows then he/she will need to learn how to interact with the cat as well.  This goes for dogs too because kids do not automatically know how to treat animals.  They have to be taught and they will learn by watching their parents as well.

http://www.healthypet.com/PetCare/DogCareArticle.aspx?title=Introducing_Your_Pet_to_a_Baby

http://familypaws.com/

http://www.humanesociety.org/animals/resources/tips/pets_babies.html

Another cool fact is you may not even know you are pregnant but your pet will.  You may wonder why they are all of a sudden more clingy or more protective or having elimination issues or want more attention than normal.  If it's possible you may be pregnant then you might want to test because dogs and cats have an extraordinary sense for this type of thing and can sense hormonal changes.

Ok.  So the test is positive.  Congratulations!  Now what?  Just enjoy being pregnant and involve your pet.  Once you decide on a name then you can say the name a lot so your pet hears it and gets used to it because you'll be saying it all the time anyway.  Let your pet sniff the baby's clothing.  Make this a positive experience for them as well.  Making the nursery off limits is fine but the pet must know his/her limits in a positive, non-disciplinary manner so as not to let the pet feel the baby is bad.  Baby gates to the nursery as a barrier are a good way to keep the pet out while still allowing him/her to view what's going on and feel a part of the family.

 All of this being said, not all animals will love your children as much as you do so if your cat or dog is attacking you and you are pregnant it's important to look into whether or not he/she doesn't like children or if it is a medical condition.  Do not assume you must give up your furry family member because you have a non-furry family member being added to the picture.  We can learn a great deal from our pets.

I hope this has helped some of you and maybe sparked some thought in others.  I've included some links to some of the experts that can give some more feedback and support as well.

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Spending time with family

I spent time with my family today.  They have an infant and a 5 year old German Shephard Dog.  While we were pretty sure how Admiral, the dog, would do with the baby, one never knows. The parents talked about the baby, said his name often, let Admiral smell his clothes, etc.  Admiral is now more protective of Greyson than anything else. He loves him and is extremely careful and patient with him. 

Just because there's an additionto the family doesn't mean the family pet has to leave.  We will post more information about ways to integrate the two.

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